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Volume 1, Issue 1
May 2002 Newsletter
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From Conflict
to Understanding
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With the tragic events of September 11th, individuals
and organizations alike are aware of the dire consequence of cultures
in conflict. Although some individuals thrive on conflict,
most people shy away and avoid it, if at all possible. In
Minnesota, we have a term for this, "Minnesota nice." However, organizations
like countries need to be able to understand others who have different
values in order to be productive and marketable.
It's unlikely your organization is as diverse
and as much at odds as the Taliban and United States but each individual
brings to the table their own beliefs, values, and personal experiences
that impact how we approach work and life. These individual
characteristics play out in how we get along and communicate with
coworkers, bosses, and customers. The challenge for organizations
is how to build a corporate environment where conflicts and differences
can be discussed in a way that brings about understanding not division.
A Harvard negotiating research project identified specific communication
patters that tear down trust,
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creativity, and a sense of team
in organizations. Even more importantly, they have outlined
ways to create a learning environment based on mutual respect and
curiosity instead of blame and fault finding. These communication
strategies can be learned and applied in any difficult conversation
whether at work or at home.
Do your staff meetings and performance reviews end with a sense
of clear purpose and a satisfaction for time well spent? If not,
Management Signature and colleagues can diagnose communication styles
and interactions to see how conversations get road blocked and give
specific directions on how to change so that more effective patterns
can emerge. If you or your organization would like to learn more,
call on us. Our contact information is listed below. We're
ready to help you!
Submitted by: Curt Levang
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But it is your issue … and it should be,
after all you're the manager. Many people are unprepared to
handle, deal with, manage the delicate issues that result in conflict
but it is especially burdensome when the manager is unprepared or
worse yet, turns a blind eye whenever the situation turns difficult.
If you are that manager, call on us--sooner rather than later. We've
been through hundreds of
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challenging conversations and we can get
you ready to face conflict with less trepidation than you usually
feel. Quick tip--take time to write out what needs to be said and
rehearse those statements out loud several times.
The last thing you need during a trying conversation is for your
words to sound foreign to your own ear. Using this practice will
help you remain calmer, on the inside and on the outside.
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Quick Source
- Barb Minkel-Dusek, Management Signature, 952-997-2285
- Curt Levang, Levang & Associates, 952-541-4799
- Mary Jo Faustgen, Midwest Center, 651-647-1900 ext. 12
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LEADERMENT
Intersecting leadership qualities with management tasks.
"Leadership should be understood as a demonstration of your
values in pursuit of something you believe in."
William Sternbergh
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In our next issue - Defining Leadership
Ask 10 people to define leadership and you'll get 10 answers.
The key to allowing a leadership definition to help you, is deciding
for yourself what leadership means before you can determine how
to "make it happen" for your employees, peers, customers,
family, neighborhood, church, or any other circle of people among
whom you circulate. Watch for the upcoming June issue to learn
more about making a leadership definition work for you.
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Management Signature
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