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Volume 1, Issue 4

September 2002 Newsletter

Something to Think About:

Roadblocks to Communication Credibility

Can you remember seeing someone on the highway with their blinker on and slowing down to let them get in your lane, only to realize a minute later that they are not planning on changing lanes?  Their actions do not match their words.  Building credibility is about matching your actions with your words.

Building credibility is so critical in today’s world!  Not only from an image perspective, but also from a character perspective.  Our character is built on our words, actions and the consistency with which we deliver on our intentions.  It is also normal to be human, nobody is perfect.  It undermines one’s credibility to be “less than honest” or “more than human.”

Have you ever wondered how some people get away with saying things they have absolutely no intention of following through on?  Whether it is a politician, company president, supervisor or the person on the highway who leaves their blinker on and doesn’t do anything, credibility is damaged.

In all forms of communication there can be several roadblocks to gaining credibility:  (1) not admitting when you have made a mistake; (2) trying to be a “know it all;” and (3) letting emotions take the drivers seat.

Here are a few simple steps that can build and reinforce character and credibility:

  • Say you are sorry.  We all make mistakes at times.  One example is a team in a large international company who was working on a high profile project.  The team leader made some poor decisions during the early part of this project.  As a result, the project crashed and burned.  The other team members were embarrassed and angry.  Two of those team members revealed to me a year after this took place that many of them still carried a chip on their shoulder toward the team leader.  When I asked what would relieve that anger they responded by saying, an apology.  If only he would have said I am sorry.  One caveat, make sure if you say it that you truly are sorry.
  • Admit when you don’t know the answer.  In today’s complex world we cannot always have the answer to every question.   We can sabotage our credibility by trying to have answers to every question the minute they arise.  Simply tell the person, “that is a great question but I don’t have the answer to that let me get back to you.”  Make sure you follow through.  If you do it, you look good because you were honest and you followed through which shows credibility.  If you don’t, it completely undermines your credibility.
  • Letting emotions take the driver’s seat.  Make sure to retain respect and dignity for others when communicating. In a recent seminar, a manager kept asking me how to communicate to an employee that she felt was not fulfilling her potential.  I could hear significant anger and judgment in this manager’s voice when describing the employee.  So I pointed this out to the manager and they agreed with me.  They were so frustrated by the employee, that it permeated their tone of voice.  Of course the employee can hear that and automatically puts up their defense mechanism.  The manager decided to focus on what the employee was doing “right” to balance out their negative emotions and remove the judgment about that employee. 

    Our emotions can act as roadblocks or catalysts to our success or the success of our employees.  If we are aware of them and pay attention to them we can leverage emotions to our benefit rather than have them interfere with our effectiveness.  Being conscious of your emotions will take your credibility a long way.  They can be expressed in many ways.  Whether it is the tone of our voice, our body language or the words we choose to use.  We can’t always see our actions and hear our tone.  So ask someone you respect and trust for feedback on your communication style.  Take a moment right now and find out how you are perceived.

Some people talk a good game, but true success is all about action and follow-through. For optimum credibility, I encourage you to make sure your actions and words match up.

About the author:  For over seven years Jay Gubrud has helped employees, executives and association members move their lives forward in positive ways.  To eliminate the roadblocks that get in the way of our success. For more information go to www.jaygubrud.com. 

The Manager's Chair

 The Winding Road of Communication

How is it that communication (or lack of it) is so intertwined with successful performance? Performance of an individual, team, or the entire organization? It all boils down to two primary points. One, the destination and two, the journey. While the destination for many business entities is likely to change over the course of time it will always remain important for everyone in the organization to understand what the current strategy is. “What are we shooting for – what’s our target?” still needs to be answered and communicated regularly or when it is time to shift course only part of you will still be holding on. This gets to the second point, the journey. How you travel can be just as important as where you are trying to get to. If you travel with a set of guidelines that everyone is plugged into, shifting course will likely be more successful and, in the meantime, you will have had some success along the way because everyone knew how to hang on.

Mapping out your communication strategy will help you keep your employees plugged in to what’s happening. Take a few minutes, right now, to get yourself started.

THE DESTINATION – remind yourself what your target is or what you intend to accomplish with your business. Begin with the end in mind, as Steven Covey tells us, and write down your destination at the far right end of your wipe board.

CURRENT LOCATION – where are you at now? What steps have you taken, to date, that have gotten you moving in the general direction of your destination. Have you created or developed the product/service? Have you ramped up an office? Have you created a network of potential clients? Have you closed a sale or two, taken so many orders, achieved $$ revenue? List these accomplishments on the far left side of your wipe board.

NEXT STOP – what are you trying to make happen in the next few weeks or months? From where you are now, what steps will you and your employees take to get to the next stop? List the activities associated with the next steps just to the right of “current location” on your wipe board.

TRAVELING – what needs to happen along your travel, in terms of communication, is an outline (a map!) that reminds you to tell your employees where you are headed (the destination), where you are (your current location) and what the next few miles are looking like. Decide on a regular pattern of updating all employees on business progress. Monthly all staff meetings, weekly email updates, charging your managers to put “progress reporting” on their staff meeting agendas, quarterly letters to employee homes, being available once each week in the employee lunchroom for open Q&A, etc. The information you are sharing has already been outlined – you just did so above. Take the destination, current location, and next few miles as specifics you can share with employees. Continue the process, repeating the destination every time so employees begin to truly understand it. As you move along your “next few miles” from the previous meeting becomes much of your “current location” at the present time.

Successfully managing the winding road of communications takes real time, real effort. If you take short cuts, jay walk, or take your eyes off the destination you are likely to miss a step that, later on, you’ll wish you had taken. When you employees can tell you what the destination is and, even better, when they can tell you how the destination has shifted – then you’ll know you are successfully traveling the road of communication. Call on Management Signature at 952-997-2285 to get started mapping! 

Quick Source

  • Barb Minkel-Dusek, Management Signature, 952-997-2285
  • Curt Levang, Levang & Associates, 952-541-4799
  • Jay Gubrud, (651) 635-9939

LEADERMENT

Intersecting leadership qualities with management tasks.

“Just being available and attentive is a great way to use listening as a management tool. Some employees will come in, talk for twenty minutes, and leave having solved their problem entirely by themselves”

Nicholas Iuppa

In our next issue – When Things Get Personal at Work

In October, we’ll begin exploring the delicate balance of personal issues in the work setting.

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